There are a lot of things that you should know if you are an amateur swinger. The swinger lifestyle is one that is not for everybody. If you are interested in swinging or if you are only doing it for your partner you need to make sure that you understand a few things first. There are a lot of people that try swinging and then immediately hate it because they had a bad experience. Here is what you should know to keep this from happening to you.

Starting Slow

It is always a good idea for you to start slow. This is something that is going to help prevent you from having an experience that can scar you from swinging all together. Try to make sure that you are honest with the people that you swing with. Let them know that you are new to it. This is nothing to be ashamed of. Everybody started at some point. You will need to let them know that you are new so that they won’t overwhelm you. Many swingers actually enjoy being with first time swingers.

With a Partner

A lot of the time, new swingers will have partners. This is something that you may want to try together as a couple to spice up your sex life or just see what all the fuss is about. You may also want to have a safe word or a look or signal that you can give each other that will let the other know that you need to leave.